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An increasing number of people are falling victim to romance fraud, which does not only cause financial harm, but may also inflict emotional and mental damage on those victims.
With Valentine’s Day just around the corner, romance may be high on many people’s agenda as they seek an appropriate way to celebrate the day. However, at the same time criminals are using this as an opportunity to devise new scams to defraud their victims on Dating Sites and social media.
At this time of the year there is a rise in Romance Frauds as the fraudsters draw their victims into false relationship, gain their confidence, before the requests for money start to come in. These are accompanied by heart rending pleas about personal, or family problems, and emergencies which need finance.
Are any platforms safe?
Fraudsters continue to target users of popular social media platforms such as Facebook and Instagram, as well as dating sites such as Tinder and Plenty of Fish, and many others.
Messaging sites such as Google Hangouts and WhatsApp may also be used to find unsuspecting victims.
As well as conventional dating platforms, online Gaming platforms may be used to seek potential victims since there are fewer protective measures in place.
Who are their targets?
Females over 40 years are common victims as well as younger males, but users also need to be aware on age related dating platforms too.
How does it work?
Basically, criminals will go to great lengths to gain the victim’s trust by claiming they are in a genuine relationship which is built up over time
They will manipulate and exploit the victim to the extent they are persuaded they are in a real and genuine relationship
They create convincing persona such as military personnel, medical staff, engineers and many others to convince the victim they are genuine
Then, when they ask for money, the victim is convinced there is no problem with the request
The requests can be very emotive citing reasons such as medical emergencies, travel costs, payment of fines or taxes, or even claiming their bank account has been frozen
Another Red flag is “Love Bombing” which is a common technique where the person shows excessive interest in you by way of extreme flattery, strong communicating of their feelings for you and promoting ideas of your future together at a very early stage – beware if they get too serious – too quick.
Tell-tale signs a friend or family member is involved in a Romance Scam
They may be very secretive about their relationship or provide excuses for why their online partner has not video called or met them in person.
They may be unwilling to discuss their online relationship, very often because the fraudster has persuaded you not to tell your family or friends
They may express very strong emotions and commitment to someone they have only just met
They have sent, or are planning to send, money to someone they have not met face-to-face. They may take out loans or withdraw from their pension to send money.
Stay safe
Never send money to someone you have never met in person
Never part with your bank or personal details to strangers online however genuine they claim to be
The fact that they may request payment to another named bank account, not their own, can be another tell-tale sign of a fraudster
Always seek advice from somebody trusted before parting with any money in any format, whether it is bank transfers, PayPal, Gift Cards or bitcoin currencies.
Profile photos are very often fake; you can research any image by doing a “Reverse Image” search to find photos that have been copied from elsewhere.
Never share images of yourself that you would not want your own family and friends to see
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